Writing A Eulogy

What can you possibly write and say for a eulogy for someone you love? How can you convey all your feelings and memories into one short speech? Whether you’re speaking at a memorial service after a cremation service in Frisco, TX or at a funeral at a funeral home, you can use these tips to help make writing and delivering the eulogy easier:

1. Keep it Brief – Make sure the speech is five minutes or less. Since its impossible to stuff an entire life into a five-minute eulogy, focus on the main parts of the deceased’s life, and be sure to write your speech down so you don’t stray off topic.
2. Be Personal – Focus on the good and positive things in the deceased’s life. Most importantly, don’t be afraid to add a few memories of your own and how the deceased personally affected your life.
3. Delivery is Key – You don’t have to be a professional actor or public speaker but be aware of your delivery. Be sure to look up from the paper every few sentences to make eye contact or connect with guests.
4. Don’t Forget a Bio –The best way to organize a eulogy is to look at it like a short biography. Include details like place of birth, marriage, children and other big milestones to keep the story linear and easy to follow. These details are not boring, but serve as a reminder of the deceased’s life. They are a traditional part of every eulogy.
5. Stay Positive – Although cremations and memorials are somber, you should still remain focused on the person’s life and not their death. The purpose of the eulogy is to honor the deceased, so stay positive and bring up happy memories, special moments, and treasured accomplishments. Don’t be afraid to add a joke here and there to keep things more positive.
6. End Positive – End your eulogy on a good note, like a fond memory or the impact the deceased had on your life. You can also finish by saying a final goodbye or mentioning that this is exactly the way the person would want things to be.
7. Be Prepared – Do not attempt to improvise a speech. The more prepared you are, the less you have to have to worry in the moment. Also, be sure to print your eulogy out on a paper so you’re not messing with a phone or tablet.
8. Details Are Important – Don’t forget to add details like your name and your relationship to the deceased. You should also be sure to thank everyone for coming and include any details about a wake or event following the service.

Use these tips to make sure you’re as prepared as possible to honor your lost loved one through the eulogy. After all, writing and giving a eulogy doesn’t have to be stressful if you are prepared. Slay Memorial Funeral Center is here to help if you want to learn more about Frisco, TX cremation services. Please pay us a visit or give us a call today.